Tuesday, May 12, 2009

You wanna know what?

As anyone who reads this knows by now, we bought season passes to Six Flags. We have made three trips already and the summer hasn't even began. Atlanta is about half way between here and where my family is so it works out as a great meeting place. I'm sure at some point, we're going to get bored with it but so far, it has proved to be a great investment.


We were on our way down there on Saturday when Emma announced that she had to go to the bathroom. As most mother's have learned the hard way, I have too learned that when nature calls, you are going to answer. You only have a choice in which method you use to answer it. For the sake of any of you that might have a weak stomach, I'll skip the descriptions and just stay that the gas station restroom that we stopped at wasn't the finest of establishments.


But out of desperation, we entered into this tiny restroom with two stalls and about six ladies packed inside. I attempted to quickly push my inquisitive 5 years and 3.75 quarters (that's how she puts it) old child into a stall in hopes of avoiding sight of the machine that is holding certain contraceptives hanging on the wall but quickly realized that I had failed because the stalls were occupied.


We were standing there as I tried to point out the pretty pink color of the hand soap (opposite direction of contraceptives) in anticipation of what was about to happen. As you can guess, Emma turned to the machine and said, "Momma, what is in that machine"? Not wanting to totally lie to my child but also not wanting to have the conversation about the birds and the bees in front of six complete strangers, I replied "that's a machine with medicine in it". She then asked, "why"? to which I replied, "In case someone has an emergency and needs it right away". The whole room erupted into laughter and one woman congratulated me on ability as a mother to field hard questions. It was only later that I realized how fortunate I was that she didn't think to ask me what the medicine helped with.


When we got back in the car, I made a mental note of the exit number to be sure to avoid the stop on the way home and then waited until Emma put her headphones back on to watch her movie before I relayed the experience to Adam.


These kind of questions really aren't that rare for Emma. We tackled the "where do babies come from"? question when she was three and I was pregnant with her baby sister. It's not my fault that she some how deciphered that God took Chloe out of my belly button from my honest yet not complete explanation. Boy is she in for a surprise! It seems like I've should have taken some kind of class on these kind of things. And before you suggest any books for me to read, the stack of books on my nightstand is getting pretty tall. I don't go through them near as fast as I used to. Some kid at school with an older brother or sister might give her the information before I get to it. Book suggestions probably won't do us much good. However, I would love to hear any clever tips or funny stories you might have about these sort of topics.


Anyway, pictures from the trip. Not pictured: the medicine machine..






















12 comments:

Holly said...

One of my good friends had this come up with her four year old so she told her the truth. Then, she regreted it and asked her mother for advice to back track. Her Mom suggested not bringing it up again and that Avery (the four year old) would forget. Well, a few months later she found out she was pregnant and Avery asked again. My friend was so happy cause she thought she forget the info she had given and just said, "Well, God makes a special way when it's time." Avery said, "You mean I came out of your bottom and she gets to come out a special way!!??" Cute. Since I heard that story I've always said, God makes a special way when it's time. Pretty good if you ask me, cause it's true!

Mandy said...

You are good! Do you mind if I steal that answer?

Looks like you guys are having a ton of fun with those passes. :)

We need to get together again...soon!

Tony and Susan said...

is that your short hair in the first picture? i don't think i've seen you with it that short. it's cute!! i like that i can still say whatever to the babies and they just smile! it helps when you can say in a stern tone, "jonah, stop getting in trouble and stop looking at mommy with that face because mommy is going to laugh instead of get on to you" and he thinks he's getting in big trouble :)

Jay said...

LOL @ Susan!

---and Sarah Jane is asking ALL kinds of questions. I usually try to skirt around the answers too, but I know the time is coming soon when I can't!!

When I was at Girls Inc. we taugh sex ed. to 7 year olds... and they came into that class knowing more than I did. Not that Sarah Jane will be educated at home the same way that these little angels were, but they will be in her class.. I don't know when the right time is. It's something I, too, have been thinking alot about.

:/ sorry, I don't have any answers... just questions too! :)

LOVE YOU

Jay said...

LOL @ Susan!

---and Sarah Jane is asking ALL kinds of questions. I usually try to skirt around the answers too, but I know the time is coming soon when I can't!!

When I was at Girls Inc. we taugh sex ed. to 7 year olds... and they came into that class knowing more than I did. Not that Sarah Jane will be educated at home the same way that these little angels were, but they will be in her class.. I don't know when the right time is. It's something I, too, have been thinking alot about.

:/ sorry, I don't have any answers... just questions too! :)

LOVE YOU

Dana said...

That is actually my sister holding Chloe. I haven't gotten quite that brave. I still rely too heavily on a ponytail. I posted a picture of me with the girls in the top right corner.

hyperactive lu said...

great job girl!

bubbie asked about those machines a few weeks ago! i can't remember what i answered with, but he must have been satisfied, because he didn't ask anymore questions.

Michael and Hannah said...

Hilarious story! You handled that well. Love all the pics. You have an incredible camera!

Supabloggasuprememama said...

thats hilarious. you did handle that well. love the pics. hope you guys had fun! we want to take aiden but the little ones are holding us back!!! ;)

Anonymous said...

Yes, and in the next post, What color glasses do super models wear?!!!!! Love Denise

The Tyree Family said...

hee, hee, hee. Kudos to you Mom! I have no idea what I would say. But I do no I would not be as clever :)

Stephanie said...

Well, if any one tries to go to Disney World there really is no way to avoid I-75 or the WE BARE ALL signs along the way for the "Cafe Risque: for singles or couples" ... Yeah, I saw about 4 of them driving my mom and gram down to Gainesville. Then I the way back I had my sister and 13 yr old nephew!